FRIENDSHIP
The Goal Of
Friendship
‘He is my friend’….. ‘
She is nice
and so, perfect that’s why we are friends’
Having a friend
is one of the best feeling in the world, knowing u’ve got someone out there who
is ready to listen to you, challenge you, motivate you to do things you scared
of doing….. Someone, someone you can feel safe with always….. All this feels
right doesn’t it? But what happens when this FRIENDSHIP a thing happens for the
worst of reasons?????????????
Hi am
Ajibade Pelumi Raymond (Joe Raymond) and today I’ll will be speaking on an
article with the above tittle… ENJOY
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WHAT
OR WHO IS A FRIEND?
Anyone
can be a friend, can be a partner, but I will define a friend as “Someone Who
Is Willing To Defend You, Inspire You, Criticize You, Not Only Criticize You
But Always Ready To Tell You The Truth When Needed, And Also Someone Who Won’t
Leave You When It All Comes Crashing Down”..
Being in an intimate conversation with anther individual does not mean
you have found a friend, all because He/She listens to you. People listen for
different reasons, some for fun, some for deceit, some just listen because they’ve got nothing else
to do, not because they want to or are interested in whatever you’ve got to say
to them…. So you might want to re-think your view whenever someone SEEMS to be
listening to you.
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DO I
NEED A FRIEND?
Why do I need to befriend someone, am perfectly okay by myself, I can
survive….
Everyone need someone in their life at some
point in time.. So wondering if you need a friend is okay, there is no harm in
that.. But your fear shouldn’t hold you back from going out to socialize.. You
are right to ask yourself if you need or will ever need a friend… FRIENSHIP is
fun, so yes you do need a friend, a companion, but never let your friendship
blind you to the truth of it all, you should still remain vigilant to all
happening around you… If making friends contradicts your personal goal of
friendship, BACK-OUT…
The Goal of friendship should be plain,
simple, smooth, productive, not selfish or for companionship only and also not
for sexual feelings…
And yes you do need a FRIEND, A TRUE FRIEND…
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THE GOAL OF FRIENDSHIP
Friends looks out for each other, with no
interior motives in friendship there must be natural likeness, even if the
feelings come avoid it. In friendship there must be love ,respect, trust ,
prayer, you share ideas ,help each others to grow...good friendship don't
support evil, backbiting, they don't hide secret, they don't envy, they catch
fun, they play together, they make jokes, they argue, insult and settle
Not being
lost, share ideas, help each other in lifting one up…….
If friendship contradicts your goal of
friendship from the start, LET SUCH FRIENDSHIP
GO………………………………………………………………………………………..
AURTHOR- AJIBADE PELUMI RAYMOND(JOEY)
CO.AUTHOR- GINIKA IHEJIWURU(NIQI)
©NIQI-JOEY
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